Hello all and happy new year.
I just saw that last time I blogged was in may last year.
How many things have happened and show different are things now.
Last blog things looked on the upside but all was not well. We never really managed to bring back the D/s element in our relation. melinda thinks it was the undoing of our relation, I believe it was the opposite: Our relation has started to erode and I now believe that as sex will go down the potty in a vanilla relation before it ends, those who do TTWD will not do TTWD any more before the relation ends.
January 2014 and indeed we decided to end it. I was at whits end over Xmas but melinda was the one in the end to break it off. It has been an interesting (and great) time, past few years and we will endeavour to remain friends but we are both single again. There are many complicated reasons for it and they are too private to discuss, specifically since I should now more then ever respect melinda's privacy. In any case things have gone as they went and we both do not think any one was at fault. It was just one of those cases that the situation was against us.
As a Dom I have had a difficult time the last year or so. I have suffered some dents in my confidence due to the unravelling of first our D/s dynamics and as of yesterday our relation. Ironically (for melinda perhaps) I have felt a Dom for many years and had subbies before melinda. I still feel a Dom. I am not saying I will rush out to find a new subbie, it may be too early for that. But I will pick up my position as Dom again and I intend (mind you I am very busy, so no promises) make a come back in the blog sphere of TTWD. As a freelance Dom for the moment, so to say.
And now I will have a look what is going on here.
Oh and I will also redo my templates and all, but there is time for that.
Hope to see my previous fellow bloggers here again